You imagine we mean very different things? Well, this is interesting. What part of "yes" don't we understand, eh?

So, what is your stance, something close to what you claim the Buddhist to be? Is it something like "Jesus was a man who attained his true god-ness and is only trying to help us achieve it as well"?

 I really don't think I'm the one who has to define or redefine what "God incarnate" means, danutz. It's a pretty clear description and most Christians would know what was meant by it. As such, the one who wants to play redefining games is the one who should clarify things for the rest of us.